Monday, August 25, 2008

Response to "So are you their Mr Right?" NewPaper

Have u read the New Paper article on "So are you their Mr Right?" Click on the link to find out.

Generally, I do not like the way New paper Puts it...

"Singaporean men are a turn-off because..."

The featured ladies may be the handful unfortunate ladies to meet up some of the worst Sg guys. When I am studying overseas, Singapore guys are hot properties by Japanese, China, HK and other girls. In fact, we are viewed as more gentlemanly. Y are we so detestable in eyes of sg girls? The overseas girls btw are all uni grads and not some uneducated village girls who are submissive.

In response to Miss Candy Soh, we are all being gossipy each day. Look @ the availability of news in the net. Bloggers are gossipy also. Its not just guys, girls or Singapore guys, in fact everyone in the world are getting gossipier each day. But being a paparazzi type i do agree its too much...but again...i know some guys and girls who are in that category not restricted to guys. U are plain unlucky. I got this girl who she is not my gf ask just too much of me. In the end, i had to give one word answer to show i am not exactly pleased without hurting her feelings. BTW, by accepting to be interviewed by a gossipy new paper make u less gossipy than others huh?

In response to Miss Celia Lim, try to look out for intelligent male bloggers like me or Relax. We do research on topics, written essays on social topics and like to involve in intelligent conversation. You have met the wrong type of guys in Sg, but it doesn't means all sg guys looking for fun and intimacy. Guys in nature regardless like to look at beautiful things..i do not deny i like to look @ beautiful ladies. But when comes to treating our female friends, my circle of guys and me treat them with respect and confortable no matter how sexy they dress. We do not see it as a sexual invitation though it provides eye candy.

In Response to Miss Jenifer Yeo, btw "Go Dutch" as the phrase suggest comes from Dutch themselves. "English guys are misers" a general comment from an irish lady friend of my sister. In fact most if not all my guys friends and I offer to pay for first date. But frequently to some posh resturants which will chalked a huge expenses, we need to take care of our financials right ? Especially most of us ain't rich. If you are talking about rich singapore guys who can afford u ur luxury, i will have no problem with that.
Come on...In all courtship, both parties (not just guys) always tried to show their best behaviours. But over the time, it's the character that counts in relationship. It applies for girls as well.

My views: There are "MR Wrongs" as well as "Miss Wrongs" around everywhere in the world. Just taking views of 3 successful single young ladies' views to generalize SG guys is just so narrow. I speak for all the Victimized SG guys. I do agree there are black sheep around. Maybe the guys on the other side of the fence look more gentlemanly and hunkier. LOL. My 2 cents.

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